So guys like to think they have this thing called the Bro Code. Let me tell you one thing….this does not exist. I mean its all well in theory, guys who are like brothers to each other, would take a bullet for each other, would never betray each other…right? WRONG! When people ask who are the more conniving of the sexes….its men. You see females by nature are very competitive, some more than others. Put a man between them and its game on, may the best woman win. Both will reveal their intentions and see what happens. Yes its true, women can fight dirty at times, but its all in the open. Unlike men who will do everything behind their bros back.
The problem with women is, we really don’t like to lose..so its all fun and games if we win, then its fun, then its healthy competition. But if we lose, that’s when we make it personal and whip out this little thing called the Sister Code. So now what is the Sister Code….Basically it is a set of unwritten rules made up by a group of girls that stipulate how one must act in certain situations.
Here is classic sister code rule:
- Exes are off limits. Always. No exception. Even if I die….LOL. So basically most girls will follow that because as hot as he is and as much as he may want you, he is someone else’s used goods and they still have a claim on them.
The problem is when you reach the grey areas in the Sister Code
For example, some girls like to go by the rule – I spot him first/I make the first move, ive basically shot gunned him. While others believe, the guy does have some sort of a say and so let it him make up his mind n let the best woman win.
Problem is this never works, cause no chick wants to put herself out there knowing that there is a chance she could get rejected. Hence it now becomes personal.
Lets play with a little scenario:
Single hot boy meets 2 hot girls. Both girls have their eye on single hot boy and make this known. Single girl one approaches, flirting begins, its going well. Single girl two approaches, flirting begins, things going well. What makes single hot boy choose one over the other….Who knows! Maybe its chemistry, maybe its just raw animal instinct. But at the end of the day in this situation…unfortunately the power is in the hands of single hot boy! So what do you do, do both girls back away, toss a coin or do u just make things fair n let the guy make up his own mind.
Now you see women cannot do that..cause if single hot boy does not choose you….that kinda sucks! And then other girl really needs to just back off cause if I can have him, nobody can…right…who knows…depends on the situation etc.
This is the art of the Game, its unpredictable and if you are gonna play it you have to be willing to play hard, fast and unfortunately accept defeat at times, trust me there is nothing worse than seeing the perfect guy with someone else. But at the end of the day no matter what you do, if he does not see you as his perfect girl…u have to accept defeat. I for one have accepted a major defeat and to someone who I do not think is worthy, but if the guy thinks that she is his perfect girl, then good for him, as long as he is happy and he feels he has the best he ever had and will ever find.
At the end of the day, when playing the Game, emotions need to be left at the door. That is what the game is all about, the thrill, the fun and the excitement of the chase. If after that things progress into something more concrete then that’s when you step out of the Game.
So if you’re single in 2010 and wanna play the Game, make sure to get your armour on. Its rough out there and you gonna get knocked down a few times. But the times things do well, and that’s usually most of the time…..Damn its good!
Let the games begin!
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